Have a good idea? Need to finish a project? Have you been
putting off doing things that would bring you closer to your desired
goals? Hummmm… sounds like
PROCRASTINATION.
The definition of Procrastination is “to put off or to defer”
Often
interchangeably used with laziness, we all procrastinate and
it is almost inevitable. The most successful people procrastinate too, but they
do it less often and they especially do not do it on important things. For
most of us it’s just our everyday responsibilities that seem to overwhelm us.
In the midst of all the important things we know we need to do, we somehow
convince ourselves that none of these things really need to be done right now
and so we choose do them later. Problem is often times later keeps coming
later or not at all.
Ever see the movie What About Bob? (1991) Bill Murray plays Bob Wiley, a neurotic New
Yorker struggling with a whirlwind of paralyzing phobias. Between his fear of failing plus procrastination, Bob
lives a limited existence. His therapist, played by Richard Dreyfuss tells him
he could start to be happy if he didn’t look at all his problems as a whole. That
he should break them down and tackle them in baby steps. So little by little, one foot in front of the
other his life begins to improve. OK, so it’s Hollywood, but the concept of baby
steps is a good one, especially when we are trying to achieve our goals.
1. Social Accountability: Tell Somebody. Forget what you were told about not telling people because they may steal your ideas. Let friends know what you plan to do. Ask them to hold you accountable and remember, real friends are truthful and supportive. Surround yourself with positive people and embarrass yourself past procrastination.
2. Make a List. (I’m a tactile
learner. I need to write things down, often twice) Be sure to check your list
at the end of each day, draw a thick black line through your accomplishments. Take
note that feeling you get as you see that list getting smaller and smaller.
Feels good right?
3. Schedule It. If you don’t schedule it, it’s not real. Seriously.
Put that action item on your calendar, (make it an event on your smart phone,
utilize the first and second alerts to keep yourself on point.